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Thursday 14 February 2013

You've said 'Yes.....I Will!' to that most elusive question of marriage - What Next?

So it's that most romantic day of the year................and you've said yes!
 
You've been here before though...................and this is the second or third time that you're getting married!
 

I’m delighted to introduce an amazing and award winning Wedding Planner to you – Julie Dawson, the founder and owner of a West Midlands based wedding planning service – The Wedding Genie www.theweddinggenie.co.uk
Julie and I have been chatting about our wedding experiences and how it’s all in the preparation!  We got talking about those of you, who are marrying for the 2nd or 3rd time……or more!  
 
So if this Valentines, brings you an unexpected proposal……….and you say yes!................How about making your next wedding the best experience it can be!  Weddings aren’t just about the day itself…….they’re all about the preparation and attention to detail beforehand.  And that’s where hiring a Wedding Planner can really make a difference for you!
 
Julie shares some of the top reasons why using a Wedding Planner should be your number 1 priority.  She also knows her industry inside out and knows all the short cuts and key contacts.
She started her business in 2009 and is going from strength to strength in being recognised as the first port of call for weddings and civil partnerships.  And to top it all, she’s recently won the regional West Midlands Wedding Planner in the Wedding Industry Awards.
So if you’ve had a proposal……and you’ve said yes…………again!............take a peek into Julie’s blog to see why contacting a Wedding Planner, might be the first phone call you make.
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Wedding Planning The Second Time Around!
Congratulations! It’s valentines and your man got down on one knee and popped the question! Lucky you! 
You have been bitten with the wedding planning bug - BUT in this case you have been there before and although your first wedding was lovely, looking back you were younger and perhaps you didn’t have as much say in the wedding as you might have liked. Maybe the budget was not under your control so you felt you had to accept ideas and plans which you were not truly happy with. 
Well give a little shriek of delight because this time it is all about the both of you! You plans are completely under your control and you know exactly what you want and more importantly what you don’t. You also understand how quickly the day goes so you want to be sure to enjoy every moment. HEAVENLY! 
BUT where do you start? You have a demanding job and maybe a young family. Your work life balance is not the best, so planning the wedding of your dreams somehow has to get shoe horned into the few free hours you have in a week. What hours I hear you say. Maybe I do need help but from someone that will never hijack my ideas or me. ! Yikes more tricky than you thought! 
Well help is at hand in the form of a wedding planner! No! I can hear you say! Shouldn’t I be able to do this myself? I am a capable organised lady. I know what I want when I close my eyes I can see the vision of my wedding day very clearly. I have a budget worked out and know what I want to spend.  BUT? Now I just need the time to sit down for a few days and research brilliant reliable suppliers and book everyone. Not to mention shop for a wedding dress, plan my budget, and do all the other 101 things that wedding planning demands. 
A wedding planner can take on all those tedious tasks and free up your time. I find most of my couples have busy working lives. They are more than capable of planning their wedding but just don’t have the time! That’s where a wedding planner like me is invaluable. We give you time to do the things that you really want to do. It’s like having your own PA to call upon whenever you need to. They will give you ideas and inspiration to help bring that dream you have in your head to reality. Help you budget and find you a perfect team to work with.
Suddenly the mammoth task of days spent phoning and surfing around for suppliers instantly disappears and in it’s place - Hey presto! A list of the most fabulous wedding suppliers appears. You get to choose who you want from a list of people that suit your budget, personality and need! What’s more because of the relationship they have you know the price is fair, you might even get a discount because of using the planner! 
Someone is always at the end of the phone for advice. You are given a list of things to do to keep on track. That payment you forgot about – thank goodness the wedding planner just reminded you. Contracts! Who has time for those? No worries a good planner will read through them and point out anything to be queried or changed. 
The personal touch. Things have changed so much and you want many personal details injecting into your wedding day. It has to reflect you both; you are older and wiser and know your style and personalities. A good wedding planner will guide you and advise you. No one is going to take over! They should give you ideas you had not thought of that are original and match what you want to portray without railroading you into something different. 
Wedding planning can be very stressful. There is much to do and organise. Suppliers want to know a million things about timings, venue access, the who, what, where and how? 
Pass this on to the wedding planner – let them take the stress it’s what they do. You are left to enjoy the journey, work with fabulous people, whilst staying on budget and getting what you want. Stay in control and feel like you planned the wedding. 
In the run up and on the day itself you have time to enjoy every moment without worrying about set up of décor, paying suppliers, timings or anything! Get dressed and pampered then let an expert guide you through the day seamlessly and unobtrusively. You are the centre of attention! 
Don’t be bogged down with details, tasks and stress, just enjoy every minute from the time your engagement starts until the end of your wedding day!  
On your honeymoon when you reflect on your wedding this time around you’ll know it was exactly what you both wanted, you got to enjoy the whole day without stress too. I would love to help you with your wedding plans. Call or email me for a chat. 

And here’s a snapshot of a recent wedding that Julie did for a couple who were marrying for the 2nd time………….photography courtesy of www.johastingsphotography.co.uk