My Top 3 Highlights from 2013 - 'One offs' with a difference!

Well it's almost upon us - that ringing in of the New Year.  Away with the Old.  Hello to the New!

But before I step into 2014, I've looked back over the last twelve months and realised a few things happened in the life of Sincere Moments  - things that are unlikely to ever happen again!

So here are my Top 3 Highlights from this year, in no particular order - each one with its' own set of emotions and memories!

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Will you marry me?

 

 

Back in April, I was delighted to design and lead little Oscar's Naming Ceremony.  Pete and Heather are just wonderful parents, deeply devoted to each other and their son.

 

But little did we all know, that Pete had something more up his sleeve for the big day!

 

 

Before the ceremony started, Pete took me to one side and gently said that he had something that he just wanted to say at the end to everyone - and could I make time for that please.  Of course! - I envisaged he wanted some space to make his own personal thanks to his family and friends.

But here's the shock......because this is what he really wanted to do:

There wasn't a dry eye in the room........as Pete turned to Heather............and thanked her for everything that she brought into his life......and everything that she'd become to him.  He loved her..........and would she marry him?  Little Oscar had no idea of the enormity of what was happening around him!

Needless to say the answer was a resounding Yes!........and I'm looking forward to helping them both celebrate their marriage next year.

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Dragon's Den Entrepreneur picks Sincere Moments as one of his favourite small businesses

 

It was April again that brought good news!  The business found itself in the spotlight for some local and national media coverage.

 

Theo Paphitis, the former Dragon's Den entrepreneur................picked Sincere Moments as one of his top 6 favourite small businesses.  That meant immediate access to Theo's international business network, to his other winners in the UK, and to his growing #SBS (Small Business Sunday) business network.

 

In November, I travelled to Birmingham to spend the day with him and other entrepreneurs......to hear his views on business.................and to receive my award from him.

 



During his speech, he made one particular comment that hit home to me.........."If your business doesn't rock your boat.........then go and get a job!"

Being a Celebrant certainly rocks my boat!

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An intimate Renewal of Vows - for a most inspirational lady!

 

It was down in Somerset in June, where I was delighted to lead a Renewal of Vows ceremony for a truly inspirational woman.

 

Naomi Thomas is the founder of the charity The Wedding Wishing Well Foundation (www.weddingwishingwell.org.uk) - a charity that helps terminally ill people, to have the wedding of their dreams.  In 2010, Naomi found out that she had incurable breast cancer - news that simply wiped out all her future dreams.  

 

On 6th June 2012, she married Graham.  A year later, and they decided that they wanted to celebrate their first year of marriage together with a Vow Renewal ceremony.  In Naomi's own words.....'We don't know if we'll have a second wedding anniversary!'

 

Away from all the spotlight and the media, Naomi and her husband Graham together with their son Devon, renewed their vows in the fabulous St Audries Park Manor House.(http://www.countryhouseweddings.co.uk/st-audries-park)

 

 

 

(Photos courtesy of http://www.martingillman.co.uk)

 

It was probably one of the most intimate of ceremonies that I've ever designed and led.  No audience.  No spectators.  Just two people lucky and grateful to have their time together.

 

Naomi went on to win the Daily Mail's Inspirational Woman of the Year award, taking her to Downing Street to meet and be congratulated by Samantha Cameron.  She's a remarkable lady who's making such a huge difference out there.  It was a pleasure to meet her and I wish her much strength in the times ahead.

 

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So there we have it!  A year where I've met many wonderful people and been involved in many milestone occasions.

 

Every ceremony I take is as unique to me, as it is to the people involved.  No two ceremonies are ever the same - nor should they be!   I'm always humbled at the personal stories people share with me and how they allow me to turn them into amazing ceremonies.

 

To all those I've worked with over the year, you've all taught me something, you've all made a difference for me. 

 

Thank you for choosing Sincere Moments to be part of your celebration.

 

Happy New Year to you all.

 

XCarole.

 

 

It's that time of year again...........time to reflect....time to stop and think!

Well that Christmas Eve hush has found its' way into our homes!

 

It makes us quite reflective. It gives us some time to stop and think.........So I just wanted to take this moment......to wish you all a very merry Christmas.

 

 

 

 

 

 

*   To all those families who I've helped say goodbye to loved ones during the year, my thoughts are with you all. Christmas will be a difficult time but you will get through it. 

Remember.......your memories are one of the few things in life......that no one can ever take away from you. May they bring you much comfort and warmth.

*   For those special families and couples who I've helped celebrate new beginnings and the history you've shared together - I hope Christmas brings you all that you're looking for ......and a little bit extra too!..........Enjoy your time together......just like you always do!

*   And for those of you who've already booked dates with me for ceremonies in 2014.........I'll be in touch as we've arranged!........You'll be surprised at how quickly it'll all come around!

Wherever you are this Christmas and however you choose to spend it.........may it bring you contentment, warmth and happiness.

Merry Christmas.

xCarole

A day in a Celebrant's diary......when she gets to meet a Dragon!

So on the 28th November, in the bustling city of Birmingham, I finally met my Dragon!

You might remember that back in April, Theo Paphitis, former Dragon's Den entrepreneur, chose Sincere Moments as one of his top 6 favourite Small Businesses on Twitter for that week.  That meant:

• That I got to be in his business club with lots of tips, ideas and networking!
• And that I got to meet him!

And here's the picture of Theo presenting me with my winner's award:

It was a buzzing and inspiring day!  The one thing that stuck in my mind after he'd given his talk.....was his quote about being in business:

"If it doesn't rock your boat........go and get a job!"

 

Being a Celebrant certainly rocks my boat.............and I'm just as attentive and proud of my next ceremony....as I was when I did my very first!



Ever wondered how a Tipi Wedding works?

I was delighted when I was recently invited to Guest Blog, on the growing demand for having your Wedding Ceremony in a Tipi. 

So this weekend I put pen to paper for Jodie, Director of Sami Tipi, a midlands based Tipi hire company, on the topic of leading Wedding Ceremonies in these outdoor settings.

Ever wondered how it all comes together?

Well take a peek into the blog and see if it answers your questions.  It'll tell you how to go about tackling the legalities of marriage - which then sets you free to have your personalised Wedding Ceremony in a Tipi.



http://blog.samitipi.co.uk/2013/12/02/meet-the-expert-carole-renshaw-civil-celebrant/

Enjoy the read!

xCarole

Age is only a number!......A blog from another site!

Well it's been 9 days since my last blog, and I was wondering which topic I should move onto next?

But then I came across this wonderful blog by another colleague, about age and it how we deal with it! 

I couldn't have said it better myself.............so I hope you enjoy the message........and the momentum the author creates!

• http://dianeholliday.wordpress.com/2013/10/15/age-is-only-a-number/

For me, the interpretation is simple!..........Be in the moment as much as you can......because that last moment you had............you'll never get again!

xCarole

"I wouldn't have changed any of it for the world!".........Marriage at its' best!

"Marriage............life..........togetherness.......................partnership!

 

Many of the Weddings, Vow Renewals and Funeral ceremonies I design and take, touch upon married life..............short marriages...............long marriages...............and just what it was about them that made them so perfect!  And whilst every marriage is different and unique...................the answers I get boil down to some pretty fundamental issues!

 

• That you stick at it................".......through thick n' thin!.....".  Marriage is for the long haul.............................so believe in it!

 

• That through all the laughs and tears................you give and take!

 

• That you never go to bed on an argument.....................every day starts afresh with a new day ahead of you!  And as one lady once said to me........."I always said.....Good Night.....and God Bless.......and then I asked him if I could turn over to sleep!"

 

It's not rocket science is it?  And yet they're probably some of the hardest things to do, in the struggles and challenges of modern life. 

 

I can see and hear many of the families and couples I've worked with, sitting in front of me now, telling me all about their marriage.  I laugh with them.  Often they cry with me.  It's part of a story that's given them the life they've loved and enjoyed!

 

 

 

 

We all live in an era of choice.............information about this.............facts about that.........decisions to be made everywhere!  But when someone says to me......"that they wouldn't have changed anything for the world.........".................then isn't that what really matters at the end of the day?

The Wedding Wishing Well Foundation - Be prepared to be blown away!

Just in case you've not come across this charity......do take a peek inside. It helps terminally ill people to have the wedding of their dreams!

Grab a coffee and read all about its' founder Naomi Thomas .........and how despite her own cancer diagnosis .......she's made the charity what it is today.

I was privileged to meet Naomi and her family in June this year, when I designed and led a very intimate Renewal of Vows ceremony for herself and her husband, Graham.  They'd made their first Wedding Anniversary!

Be prepared to be blown away!

XCarole

http://www.weddingwishingwell.org.uk/default.html



 

 

 

Walking down the aisle......but to what?!

So you have some choice over the song you walk down the aisle to!

You're thinking of current trends or favourite songs!

Or you might just be the traditional Bride who wants what's gone before.

If you're in the planning stage of your Wedding Ceremony, take a listen to this little bag of tricks from You Tube.  It's got a few traditional tunes that might just help you decide.......

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ymSZ3UsuKU

Enjoy listening.......and deciding!

xCarole

A Barn.......A Bassett Hound Puppy......A Wedding just how they wanted it!

The beauty of using a Wedding Celebrant to take your ceremony, is that you have complete freedom to do exactly what you like!

Hold it anywhere you want!

Involve who-ever and what-ever you like!

And have it written especially for the two of you........no other couple in the land will have a ceremony like yours!

And that's just the kind of Wedding that Leicestershire based Phil and Philippa wanted!  

They're two exceptionally creative people who knew from the very start, that they wanted a Wedding ceremony that reflected them - their values and beliefs and just how they were as a couple.  

They wanted it to be meaningful, sincere, personal and creative, balanced with subtle elements of tradition gently woven through it.    They were a fantastic couple to work with and I'm delighted that they've shared their wedding album with me.  Here's a snapshot of some of the moments their photographer captured during the ceremony. 

Imagine::..........rustic.......rural.......natural........formal and informal.........warmth.......topped with authenticity and sincerity.  That's how I'd sum them up as a couple.......and that's the kind of Wedding they had!







The barn all ready and waiting .......themed just how they wanted it.........
and they did it all themselves!



Think I'm having a little word with the Groom and the Best Man!

Here comes the Bride!

The rings are ready for their rightful owners!

I remember this moment well.....and what we were laughing about!

Little Olive the Basset Hound!

A moment for themselves...some relaxation!

"You may now kiss your Bride!"



Congratulations the new Mr & Mrs Lurcock!
Go safely.......Go gently.......Go make a difference with your lives!

And here's some of what they had to say after their celebrations:

"Thank you so much for playing such an important role in our day and making the ceremony so special and memorable.....................many assumed you were a close family friend or similar and that is also how it felt to us.

From start to finish, we felt that the most important part of our wedding was in safe hands - so thank you so very much for that..........."

So if you want a Wedding Ceremony:

• That truly reflects who the two of you are!
• That tells your story!
• And that's personal to you.......

Then do get in touch. 

You're two very unique people.  And you deserve a unique and memorable wedding...........something that your guests will still be talking about long after your anniversary date passes!

xCarole

(Photography courtesy of @CaughtTheLight2013)



To Pray or not to Pray.....that is the question!

Whenever I take a ceremony - whether that be a Funeral , Vow Renewal, Baby Naming or a Wedding - I'm not cloaked or gowned in anything that resembles a religious institution.  In fact you'll probably find me in a black, grey or purple co-ordinated outfit!

So normally, people who are in the audience are a little curious as to who and what I am.   Straight away, they believe I must be an Humanist.  Because that's the language that's been around for some time.  You either believe in religion - or you don't. 

And if you don't, then you're a Humanist, Atheist or whatever label you choose to give it!

I describe the role of a Civil Celebrant as someone who's 'Middle of the Road'.  Which to me, means that the world isn't so black and white as we'd like to imagine.  Religious or not - how about "I don't know!"

So people who book and commission me to lead a ceremony for them, know that they are completely free to include any aspect of religion or spirituality into their celebration.  They use me because they don't want the ceremony to be led by religious beliefs or by an individual espousing what should be happening in life. 

To Pray or not to Pray - that is the question!

And if you decide to pray, sing a hymn, or have a religious reading, then make sure you don't book a Humanist to lead the ceremony for you.  It's simply not possible because of the belief systems of that ideology.

I don't know about you, but I'm pretty clear which option gives me most flexibility!

xCarole

Tomorrow is never promised to anyone......go tell your Dad what he really means to you!

Texts........emails............cards being opened..............telephone calls..............visits!

Today............thousands of Dad's around the country will be smiling through Father's Day!

Your Dad is special..............He's unique................He's a one off.  How about ringing him or telling him face to face, just how much he means to you.  It's not as easy as writing a card or sending a text.............but he'll remember it more!

One day, you won't be able to do that.

And remember.  Just around the corner, there's someone who'd like to give their Dad a huge hug.  But they can only remember him.

Life is a privilege.  Tomorrow is never promised to anyone.

Be in the moment with your Dad!

xCarole

Why I'm not afraid to ask the difficult questions!

"That's a hard one.......!"

Pause....................Silence................Looks upwards........................Looks outside..............Looks to the floor.

When I'm designing ceremonies with families and couples, I'm not afraid to dig deep and ask the hard and difficult, searching questions.  They're the ones that bring you to a sudden halt.......and stop and make you think!  And inevitably, they bring out some amazing answers..........and that all leads to wonderfully creative ceremonies.
 

Here's an example.

"How do you both like spending your spare time?".....is an easy question that gives easy answers.

"When time is your own.........what makes you laugh out loud.....cry with laughter..........or smile from the heart?" .......is a difficult question that really makes you think.  

 

Chances are.........it also takes you much longer to answer the question....but that's OK - the answer is worth waiting for!

If you're happy to let me provoke your thoughts......and use your answers to create unique ceremonies.........then we're a fit!

XCarole

Standard Scripts.......they just sheep dip!

I accept that we're all different.

 

I understand that we all choose different things in life.

 

And I can see why 'straight forwardness' can be appealing....

 

But I can't see why we should settle for standard and well used scripts with finger prints all over them, when we're holding ceremonies for life's key moments like births, deaths and marriages.

• We are unique. 
• There is no other person on earth like us. 
• We cannot be replicated. 
• We all have a story!

The ceremonies I write, reflect this individuality......standard scripts sheep dip!. 

 

They create stories that people love to hear and be part of......standard scripts aren't interested in anything other than speaking their words! 

 

They build warmth and engagement with your guests and audience ........standard scripts don't 'do' engagement....they're written to just tell you something!

 

When I get my next call for another ceremony booking, I'll have one of these tucked away under my arm!........It's part of my working inventory!...................It's energising!....................And it'll help me to work with stories and individuality!

 

 

 

Don't settle for something that hundreds of others before you have settled for.  You deserve more than that!

 

XCarole

Dragon's Den entrepreneur Theo, makes Sincere Moments one of his 6 favourites!

I'm absolutely delighted to find out that tonight, Theo Paphitis has chosen my business Sincere Moments to be one of his top 6 small business favourites for this week!

Theo created the Small Business Sunday (#SBS) initiative in October 2010.  Every week, thousands of small businesses between the hours of 5 - 7.30pm, send him one tweet telling him about their business.

On Monday, he then chooses his top 6!

And guess what....today I was one of them.......and here's the winning tweet!

 

 

If you're wondering what it's all about then take a look at his web site http://theopaphitissbs.com/

 

I'm absolutely over the moon and just so pleased for my Celebrancy business.  I love what I do and I'm glad it shows!

 

XCarole

 



 



Married or not......you should read this!

I came across this through Facebook.............And when I read it...........it brought tears to my eyes and my morning to a standstill.

The title is very true!  Whether you're married or not.............you should read this!

But grab a coffee or a glass of wine.....and be prepared to go into deep thought mode.

xCarole


http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151385780056728&set=p.10151385780056728&type=1&theater

A different name? A different life?

Have you ever wondered how different your life might have turned out, if you'd been given a different name?

What is it that leads you down a certain path, to give your baby the name that you have? 

Sometimes we look at others with the same name - and that either draws us to the name.......... or puts us off it!  Often we dig deep into the meaning of names.......and for others we just stumble across something that we like. 

And I've heard all of these reasons from Mums and Dads, when I sit with them and talk about their Baby Naming .................and then I weave the story into the right moment in the ceremony!

But here are some predictions for this year ........and you'll either love them or hate them!

And anyway......it seems that Mums get the final say on the name in the end!

Enjoy the light reading!

XCarole

http://www.babycentre.co.uk/a1053865/baby-name-predictions-for-2013

"You were an absolute sensation!"

"Well I have to tell you.........you were an absolute sensation!"

"We have struggled for words to descibe our feelings."

"We were truly delighted and feel privileged to have found you."
"You have made a big impact on our lives and we are sure you will do the same for everyone you work with in the future."

 Sandy and Sue live overseas. In March, I was delighted to meet up with them again, to take their Wedding Ceremony for them in front of their family and closest of friends.

They've just shared some photos with me which capture the ceremony and them as a couple. It was a wedding with snippets of humour........sincerity..........warmth.......and one that was deeply meaningful for everyone there.....including myself!

Every wedding ceremony is different - just as every couple is different. But that's what makes it all so personal and so unique!

Sandy and Sue's ceremony script has no currency with any other couple. It's theirs.....and theirs alone!

Enjoy the photos and the sentiment they capture.

XCarole


Photos were courtesy of Jodie Brennan here in Staffordshire www.jodiebrennan.co.uk

Tell them your story.....your way!

I was gently reminded today..........of the power of story telliing!

Stories bring people to life.
Stories let our imagination run wild.
Stories help us to tell people what really happens in our lives.
 
Whenever I conduct planning sessions or meetings with families about big life events, celebrations and ceremonies........I use story telling as my main medium of inquiry.

If any Celebrant walks into your house with a structured questionnaire.....show them the door!

Tell them your story......your way!

x Carole

It's that time of year to bring in the Daffodils!

 

You may or may not know this poem!

But here's the famous Wordsworth's Daffodils.......................and it's that time of year when many people bring it into their celebrations.

It fits any ceremony........and any person who has a love for these early rays of sunshine!

Happy Spring time!

XCarole

https://wordsworth.org.uk/daffodils.html

 

A bottle of red wine.......just when you least expect it!

I had a wonderful surprise today.............I was awarded a bottle of red wine!

I'm a member of the Women in Rural Enterprise network (www.wireuk.org) and regularly attend the different networks around the West Midlands. 

Their networks are a great way to meet other women in business and hear their successes and challenges!  I always leave with a few golden nuggets that help me to grow my company and expand my brand and reputation.

Last year, I attended the local Cheshire WiRE network and was invited to give a presentation about my business, Sincere Moments.  I covered all those things that help people to understand what my product is and why I do what I do!  Namely:

• Why I chose to become a Celebrant
• What I enjoy most!
• How I'm growing my business
• My Values and Ambitions
• Tips and advice for other WiRE members

So imagine my delight today, when I received a bottle of red wine from Sue Roberts, the network leader from the Cheshire WiRE network.  It was awarded for the best presentation given at the Cheshire network meetings during 2012!

And here we are today......having a little radio exposure at a local radio station during our meeting........with a bottle of wine in hand!

Thank you so much Sue!

XCarole

You've said 'Yes.....I Will!' to that most elusive question of marriage - What Next?

So it's that most romantic day of the year................and you've said yes!

 

You've been here before though...................and this is the second or third time that you're getting married!

 

I’m delighted to introduce an amazing and award winning Wedding Planner to you – Julie Dawson, the founder and owner of a West Midlands based wedding planning service – The Wedding Genie www.theweddinggenie.co.uk

Julie and I have been chatting about our wedding experiences and how it’s all in the preparation!  We got talking about those of you, who are marrying for the 2^nd or 3^rd time……or more!  
 

So if this Valentines, brings you an unexpected proposal……….and you say yes!................How about making your next wedding the best experience it can be!  Weddings aren’t just about the day itself…….they’re all about the preparation and attention to detail beforehand.  And that’s where hiring a Wedding Planner can really make a difference for you!

 

Julie shares some of the top reasons why using a Wedding Planner should be your number 1 priority.  She also knows her industry inside out and knows all the short cuts and key contacts.

She started her business in 2009 and is going from strength to strength in being recognised as the first port of call for weddings and civil partnerships.  And to top it all, she’s recently won the regional West Midlands Wedding Planner in the Wedding Industry Awards.

So if you’ve had a proposal……and you’ve said yes…………again!............take a peek into Julie’s blog to see why contacting a Wedding Planner, might be the first phone call you make.
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Wedding Planning The Second Time Around!

Congratulations! It’s valentines and your man got down on one knee and popped the question! Lucky you! 

You have been bitten with the wedding planning bug - BUT in this case you have been there before and although your first wedding was lovely, looking back you were younger and perhaps you didn’t have as much say in the wedding as you might have liked. Maybe the budget was not under your control so you felt you had to accept ideas and plans which you were not truly happy with. 

Well give a little shriek of delight because this time it is all about the both of you! You plans are completely under your control and you know exactly what you want and more importantly what you don’t. You also understand how quickly the day goes so you want to be sure to enjoy every moment. HEAVENLY! 

BUT where do you start? You have a demanding job and maybe a young family. Your work life balance is not the best, so planning the wedding of your dreams somehow has to get shoe horned into the few free hours you have in a week. What hours I hear you say. Maybe I do need help but from someone that will never hijack my ideas or me. ! Yikes more tricky than you thought! 

Well help is at hand in the form of a wedding planner! No! I can hear you say! Shouldn’t I be able to do this myself? I am a capable organised lady. I know what I want when I close my eyes I can see the vision of my wedding day very clearly. I have a budget worked out and know what I want to spend.  BUT? Now I just need the time to sit down for a few days and research brilliant reliable suppliers and book everyone. Not to mention shop for a wedding dress, plan my budget, and do all the other 101 things that wedding planning demands. 

A wedding planner can take on all those tedious tasks and free up your time. I find most of my couples have busy working lives. They are more than capable of planning their wedding but just don’t have the time! That’s where a wedding planner like me is invaluable. We give you time to do the things that you really want to do. It’s like having your own PA to call upon whenever you need to. They will give you ideas and inspiration to help bring that dream you have in your head to reality. Help you budget and find you a perfect team to work with.

Suddenly the mammoth task of days spent phoning and surfing around for suppliers instantly disappears and in it’s place - Hey presto! A list of the most fabulous wedding suppliers appears. You get to choose who you want from a list of people that suit your budget, personality and need! What’s more because of the relationship they have you know the price is fair, you might even get a discount because of using the planner! 

Someone is always at the end of the phone for advice. You are given a list of things to do to keep on track. That payment you forgot about – thank goodness the wedding planner just reminded you. Contracts! Who has time for those? No worries a good planner will read through them and point out anything to be queried or changed. 

The personal touch. Things have changed so much and you want many personal details injecting into your wedding day. It has to reflect you both; you are older and wiser and know your style and personalities. A good wedding planner will guide you and advise you. No one is going to take over! They should give you ideas you had not thought of that are original and match what you want to portray without railroading you into something different. 

Wedding planning can be very stressful. There is much to do and organise. Suppliers want to know a million things about timings, venue access, the who, what, where and how? 

Pass this on to the wedding planner – let them take the stress it’s what they do. You are left to enjoy the journey, work with fabulous people, whilst staying on budget and getting what you want. Stay in control and feel like you planned the wedding. 

In the run up and on the day itself you have time to enjoy every moment without worrying about set up of décor, paying suppliers, timings or anything! Get dressed and pampered then let an expert guide you through the day seamlessly and unobtrusively. You are the centre of attention! 

Don’t be bogged down with details, tasks and stress, just enjoy every minute from the time your engagement starts until the end of your wedding day!  

On your honeymoon when you reflect on your wedding this time around you’ll know it was exactly what you both wanted, you got to enjoy the whole day without stress too. I would love to help you with your wedding plans. Call or email me for a chat. 

And here’s a snapshot of a recent wedding that Julie did for a couple who were marrying for the 2^nd time………….photography courtesy of www.johastingsphotography.co.uk

 

 

Loved Guest Blogging for the photographer who captured my own Wedding Ceremony!

Almost 2 years ago and by chance, I met a local photographer by the name of Kim Shaw! (www.kimshawphotography.co.uk)

Little did I know at the time...........but she was to be more than a photographer who would provide me with my portrait pictures for my new web site....................In fact she became my photographer for my own wedding back in June 2012! 

I just liked her style, her relaxed approach and her passion for flexibility and professionalism.  I knew she was the right person to be with us on our wedding day and I simply wouldn't have asked for anyone else!  

So I was delighted when she asked if I'd blog for her..............to explain a little more about the role of Civil Celebrants and how they're performing personalised Wedding Ceremonies all across the UK. 

Here's the link to the blog, which gives you some insights into how a Civil Celebrant, can give you a most personalised and unique Wedding Ceremony:

http://blog.kimshawphotography.co.uk/?p=27

So if you're looking for a photographer that covers the Staffordshire, Shropshire or Cheshire borders................and who will put you at ease.........capture the essence of your wedding and just calmly bring it all together for you on the day................then get in touch with Kim!