A man on a train. A quick conversation. A day of reflection.

I’d like to introduce you to a man who just stopped and made me think!

You know when you just listen to someone and feel humility? When someone says something that makes you think about life in general……..Well yesterday that very thing happened to me.

Imagine a busy morning commuting train – this one was taking me to Birmingham. You can probably hear the hustle and bustle of passengers and the mutterings that develop in the carriages. If I’m honest, I tend to sit and listen most of the times. But yesterday, this amazing elderly man seated next to me started one of those very conversations with me. He had no idea of his impact. But he made me feel humble. In the space of 40 minutes, he was about to influence my thinking for the rest of the day.

Here was a man who had lost his wife just over 20 years ago. But here was a man too, that had decided all those many years ago, that the status quo of having ‘nothing to do’ was not an option for him. So here’s what left me feeling so humble:

• He wondered if he could take up cycling – and became proficient in cycling 100 miles a day with no more than a map in hand. He has a list of B&Bs in his pocket for his ‘stop offs’.
• He enjoyed using his hands so he learnt calligraphy – and became so good at it that he now teaches it every Tuesday.
• He saw no point in sitting next to somebody for 40 minutes without making some form of conversation – why miss an opportunity to learn something whatever that might be?

I’d like to introduce you to Eddie.

Eddie left me feeling humble. He had achieved some big changes after such a sad occasion. He left me feeling amazed that someone in the later stages of their life could cycle 100 miles a day. I became reflective as I thought about my own life and those around me.

We all know that major events in our lives can trigger a new chapter for us. Organisations often need a shock into their systems to trigger change, revitalisation or renewal. Eddie simply reminded me of just how effective this can be – even when the opportunity for change is driven by sad or tragic events. There is plenty of this in the world right now, but how it’s used for the greater good is a challenge to us all!


(The name of the man on the train has been substituted to ensure anonymity)